How to Use a Wand Vibe

So… what is a wand vibrator?
Think: handle at one end, big vibrating head at the other. They’re often marketed as “back massagers” (and yes, technically they can be — wink wink). But their real superpower? Pleasure.

While they’re pretty straightforward to use, here are a few tips — whether you’re a beginner or a seasoned wand-wielder who could use a little inspiration:

💫 Where does it go?
A wand is an external vibrator (some do have attachments for internal use, but let’s keep it simple for now).

• Use it anywhere you like: nipples, clitoris, inner thighs.
• Remember: the clit is more than the little button you see. (We’ll get into that next week).
• They’re also divine in foreplay — or even as a regular back massage (the excuse we all have in our back pocket if the kids ever find it).

💫 How to use it?

• Hold it lightly against your body, or add a bit of pressure.
• Try rubbing, teasing (“on and off” can drive you wild), or letting the rhythms and speeds do the work.
• Always add water-based lube for a smoother ride.

Use it solo, with a partner, or let your partner take the controls — it’s all fair game.

🔥 Hot tips for partnered play:

• Ask your partner to give you a pleasure-focused massage with the wand. Thank me later.
• Holding the wand on your clit during anal sex? Life-changing. (Best if you control the wand so it stays exactly where you want it).

🔥 Hot tip for solo play:
Go re-read our Lounge post about the rhythm setting on vibrators. Pair that with slow breathing, and you’ll basically be edging yourself into bliss.

✨ The wand is versatile, powerful, and always ready to deliver. Have you got one in your toy box yet?